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Friday, 12 September 2014

Remember September


Remember September
Say do you remember/ dancing in September/  never was a cloudy day
- Earth Wind and Fire - September
I often find autumn to be a nostalgic time.  As the rhythm of life changes from holidays to ‘back to school’, feelings and memories of previous autumns wash through me.  Memory is such a potent force in our lives which is inextricably linked with our sense of music and sound. The sound of a bus or the crunching of autumn leaves under foot can trigger memories of our journey home from school.  So here’s a little look at how singing is a form of brain gym that keeps our memory muscles supple at all stages of life.

Brain babble
From the moment we are born, we learn by listening and imitating the sounds in our environment.  This continues throughout life - we notice that buzz words go in and out of fashion - whether that’s a new piece of mobile phone jargon 'Apps' or the latest teenage descriptive words ‘sick’ or a new exclamation ‘wow’ or ‘awesome’.  We pick up verbal habits, intonations, accents and expressions when we hang out in different cultural, professional, social groups - I found myself after a period of living in New Zealand adding an ‘eh’ and raised inflection to the end of many sentences.  No surprise then, that songs reflect the preoccupations of their times and have the tardis like ability to transport us back and forth through the trajectory of our personal, social and cultural histories. 

The Mouth of Memory
Throughout history different cultures have used singing as a memory device.  Before the advent of the written word, early indigenous cultures integrated the soundscapes of nature into hunting, social and religious rituals which passed on the knowledge and language of the tribe.  Much of Ancient Greek theatre and poetry would have been sung rather than spoken, making the content memorable for both actor and audience.  Indian Classical music is still taught through the oral tradition where the student learns by continued repetition from their guru.  Whilst the visual representation of words is now considered vastly powerful in the media, internet and literature, ‘word of mouth’ is still fundamental to the way we share, process and absorb important information - we still want to hear the truth ‘from the horse’s mouth.’

Music of the Brain
Music requires a multi-level, multi-sensory response.  The vibrations of sound can be perceived by everyone regardless of hearing ability.  The rhythmic aspect of music stimulates motor and kinaesthetic brain functions - from surreptitious toe tapping to all out boogie-woogie. Imagining the stories contained in songs and engaging with representations of music such as scores stimulates our visual senses.  The emotional and memory aspects of our brain are closely associated, which is why a weepy love song can trigger a memory of a past love. Learning and creating lyrics enables us to develop language skills and express ideas, concepts and feelings.

Making Memory
When we are young, singing acts as a powerful mnemomic - from the Greek mnemonikos ‘memory’ - helping us recall everything from names, alphabets, facts, concepts and social cues.  A pioneering study in 1967 by Gerald R Miller demonstrated that musical mnemonics increased memory retention by 77%.  Many teachers testify that young children respond far more readily to instructions when they are sung rather than spoken.   Young brains are engaged and stretched by the dynamics, pitch, story, melody and intonation of song.

Traces of Time
Singing supercharges your memory”
Composer and singing ambassador Howard Goodall explains that we build memory by capturing traces of our experiences.  To fully embed a memory requires significant repetition, which is why babies and children will repeat the same action to a level which bemuses adults. My baby nephew will repeat the motion of opening and shutting a door, laughing with delight each time.  The rhythm of early learning patterns is embedded in nursery rhymes like ‘wind the bobbin up’ or ‘open and shut them’ to support a child’s development in all areas, building memory until a skill becomes automatic.

Mending Memory with Music
This extraordinary capacity of music to support the creation of memory can be used to support those suffering memory loss, brain disease and trauma.  As music stimulates many areas of the brain, whilst language is very specifically located, it is often found that those who have lost the ability to speak can still sing.   Singing songs from earlier parts of life can restore a sense of familiarity to those with Dementia, Alzheimers or Brain Trauma. Singing songs like ‘Roses of Picardy’ was used to cure soldiers with shellshock after WWI, whilst Big Band music was found to help WWII veterans recover mobility just as walking to a rhythm is now used to treat patients with Parkinsons or stroke.  
"One theory is that music as able to short-circuit the damaged area through repetition.  It creates a new pathway in and people can then use that pathway out." - Lee Ann Rasar, Music Therapist, University of Wisconsin

Life Long Song
Throughout life, singing enables us to create, retain and reclaim our powers of memory. Whether it is the song at our wedding or the lullaby we heard in infancy, music puts markers in our personal timelines, enabling us to celebrate and commemorate important events and create the legacy of songs we sing to those who are to come.

Wishing you a truly memorable September

Thursday, 14 August 2014

15 Powerful Statements to Say to Resistance

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15 Powerful Statements to Say to Resistance

Dear Friend
Resistance is a well known friend to all of us - it’s the playmate who gets us posting on Facebook and cleaning the house when we are writing a report. Resistance has a great repertoire of excuses - “you can’t write a book, you don’t have a degree.”  Resistance is that ever-so sympathetic yet disabling friend who says “poor you, you must be exhausted, have a lie down” when we start exercising. Resistance says “I can’t, I’m not worthy, not today, maybe tomorrow, I’ve got a headache, I need to check my email, I’m not ready.”  Resistance is the mental mumbojumbo which leads straight to the fridge/ internet/ booze/ cigarettes/ sofa where we find ourselves ‘vegging out’ with a glazed look on our face wondering why we feel strangely depressed.

I am constantly facing resistance - both my own and others. I find myself standing in front of people displaying looks of terror, poker faces, crossed arms, yawns, tuts, grimaces, furrowed brows, despairing sighs when I say “Let’s Sing!”  This helps me identify and understand my own resistance.

So here’s 15 statements to say when resistance comes knocking.

0. “......” Silence - Be Still - taking a deep breath and stopping for a minute stills the resistance rap and sets up a new flow of inspiration.

1. “I will turn up and start with one small step” - turning up is bringing our presence to the party - even if I sit and stare at a blank screen, just turning up is a start.

2. ‘It’s ok not to know” - when we start something new - making a cake or planning a trip- even if we have a map or recipe there’s no real way of knowing what will happen. So it’s ok to take the pressure off ourselves to be all-knowing and acknowledge that it’s scary.

3. “I’m allowed to try something new” -  transforms the fear of change into permission to explore new possibilities, which as any neuroplasticist will testify, is great braingym.

4.  “It’s ok to make (mis)takes” - giving ourselves permission to take small imperfect steps liberates us from perfectionism and the fear of failure.  Success comes by working through many ‘takes’ - which are the juicy material of our life-movie.

5. “The time is now, everything else can wait.” - great for dealing with procrastination - the art of forever waiting for the ‘right time’ to do something.  That extensive list of non-essential tasks (a.ka. distractions) can keep for later.

6.  “I really do want to do this because….” - staying tuned to our intention is a great internal GPS, enabling us to prioritise and commit fully to our dreams.

7.  “I’m here to do my job, not to be liked” - this alleviates people pleasing - I am aware that not everyone will like me or my work, but this does not stop me from doing it.

8.  “I’m just going to do me” - other people’s problems can be a wonderful distraction. Far from being selfish, focusing on ourselves allows us to give more, as we replenish our resources and serve up our true contribution to the world.

9.  “Obstacles are a welcome test of my mettle” - Saying ‘AHA!’ when you encounter resistance in its many forms including domestic, technology and transport incidents means you can have a chuckle and take it in your stride.

10. ‘I’m allowed to take support” - whether it’s hanging out with the cat or employing a dream team to get the vision on the road, building in self-care and being around  supportive people is essential.

11. “I’m allowed to enjoy this”- conditioning like ‘life is a struggle’ can imbue us with a sense of guilt, obligation and drudgery.  Returning to our sense of play, curiosity and pleasure allows us to enjoy the experience - there is space for fun even within the most difficult tasks.

12.  “It’s ok to complete things” - delaying completion is rooted in the fear of endings and death - we fear the grief we will feel when something is finished. Completion brings fulfilment, accomplishment, celebration and space for new beginnings.

13. “I will feel so great when… - visualising the end result and how brilliant it will be brings the enjoyment into the present in the same way as booking a holiday gives us pleasure before we travel.  Fear and excitement are two sides of the same coin so cultivating positive excitement turns the cobblywobbles into beautiful butterflies.

14. “I’m allowed to be BIG” - fulfilling on our dreams often requires stepping up and becoming more visible. The part of us that wants to stay small will resist. A quick way to vanquish this is to strike a really big pose, smile and shout TA DA!

15. “I can laugh and congratulate myself at each step of the way” - laughter immediately discharges the grand problem of taking things too seriously.  Celebrating the ups and downs enables us to truly enjoy the magnificent journey of creativity.

Wishing you a powerful, playful, creative summer